18 Best Sex Toys for Men and Women 2023: Top-Rated Massagers, Vibrators
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Retailers across the country say sales of sex toys spiked over the last three years, as people looked to self-pleasure as a new form of self-care — and the trend shows no sign of slowing down.
For Chris Cicchinelli, CEO and President of Pure Romance (a direct seller of “relationship enhancement” and intimacy products), sales of the brand’s sex toys are up 88 percent since March 2020, with even the “bondage” category seeing a small uptick in sales. “Statistically, it is not uncommon for couples to turn to sex for comfort and advancing their relationships,” he says. “Who says there’s no sunshine after the rain?”
Now, even as everything from speed-dating to bar pick-ups and the throughs of cuffing season have come back full-swing, solo sex toy sales continue to grow. In other words, people are keeping their personal sex toys and continuing to buy more.
What Are the Top Sex Toys to Buy Online?
Whether you’re just starting out with sex toys or skilled at the art of stimulation, we’ve rounded up some of the most top-rated, popular devices and accessories that people are buying right now. Along with Cicchinelli’s recommendations, we looked for toys with majority positive reviews, or a cult following who rave about their success.
1. OhMiBod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibe
Ella Pardis
Sex toys should be comfortable and easy to use, which is why we love this Finger Vibe from OhMiBod. The ergonomic clitoral vibrator sits comfortably in your palm with a two-finger loop for security. This lets you rub almost as you would without a toy, only it feels way better with five vibration modes. Made of a plush, 100 percent waterproof material, the Finger Vibe is easy to clean, great for the shower and soft to the touch.
2. Velvet Thruster Prime
The Thruster
We all have different tastes when it comes to sex. The award-winning Velvet Thruster Prime dildo aims to accommodate this erotic variety by offering customizability: You get to choose between five heads of differing shapes and sizes, as well as the thruster’s color and accessories. After choosing your design, sit back and enjoy smooth, machine-powered thrusting action.
3. Womanizer Duo 2
Womanizer
The Womanizer Duo 2 has enjoyed much acclaim, and it deserves the attention. As the name suggests, the Duo 2 is really two toys in one with a clitoris stimulator and an attached vibrator. Ergonomically shaped to tackle your clitoris and G-spot simultaneously, the toy promises serious satisfaction. But don’t be intimidated: both parts of the toy can be adjusted to match your mood with 14 levels of intensity on the clitoris stimulator and 10 modes on the vibrator.
4. Better Love Rabbit Lily
Amazon
This unisex vibrator features 10 different speeds and dual motors. Turn it up for a more intense experience, or keep the vibrations slow and smooth, depending on your mood. Either way, it stays superquiet. The Rabbit Lily is 100 percent waterproof and features a soft silicone tip that can be inserted up to four inches deep.
5. We-Vibe Chorus
We Vibe
Designed for couples (but can absolutely be used solo), this vibrator offers dual stimulation with more than 10 different modes. The vibrator is super soft and flexible, to adapt to the different curves and crevices in your body. The touch-sensitive remote reacts to human touch. The harder you squeeze, the more intense the vibrations.
6. TENGA Easy Beat Eggs
Amazon
Designed by the Japanese firm TENGA, these eggs are all uniquely textured inside for a more heightened masturbatory experience. “Crack” the egg open and slide it over your shaft to enjoy a surprisingly arousing sensation. This six-pack contains six different suction styles, from “wavy” to “tornado.”
7. Emojibator Pickle Personal Massager
Amazon
This “Emojibator” is a fun and accessible way to get into sex toys, without any intimidation. This unisex massager is 100 percent waterproof and lets you choose from 10 different vibration speeds and settings, from gentle to intense. It runs on a single AAA battery (included).
8. LELO SONA 2 Cruise
LELO
A uniquely shaped device designed for clitoral stimulation, the SONA 2 Cruise offers gentle waves that ripple along the body both inside and out. A wider surface area and large mouth provides plenty of options for play, while the silicone absorbs the sonic waves and transmits them back to your clitoris, for a deeper yet gentle sensation. The harder you press it against your body, the more powerful the stimulation.
9. PHANXY Rose Tongue Licking Vibrator
Amazon
PHANXY has one of the hottest clitoral stimulators you can find on Amazon this season. Compact, stylish, and oh-so-smooth, PHANXY’s soft silicone tongue flicks with nine different speeds. One short press of the button also lets it lightly reverberate vibes all around. Its compact size makes it great for packing up for trips, or keeping beside your bed. This rose-shaped vibrator is also waterproof and USB rechargeable — so you can shower a little longer.
10. LELO TOR 2
LELO
This vibrating ring is worn by men but enhances pleasure for both partners. With six different settings and a snug (but not too tight) fit, the vibrator gently titillates while helping to control his orgasm, for longer sessions in bed. Take it out of the bedroom too — the Tor 2 is 100 percent waterproof, making it a great toy for the shower or tub.
11. SKYN Thrill Massager
Amazon
This rose-gold massager is great for solo play or use with a partner. The Thrill features three speeds, is water-resistant, and USB-rechargeable. A single charge lasts up to one hour. This mini vibrator is from the condom brand SKYN — a company that knows a thing or two about pleasure.
12. TENGA Flex White
Amazon
One of the most popular products in TENGA’s lineup, the Flex White is a sleek, streamlined masturbation cup, designed to add new sensations with every stroke. It’s lined with a soft and flexible rubbery material that loosens and tightens like a spiral every time you move the device up and down your shaft. The rippled outer layer ensures a comfortable grip.
13. Club Vibe 3.OH Hero
OhMiBod
From the popular sex-tech brand, OhMiBod, this “Club Vibe 3.OH” vibrator reacts to ambient sounds and sends a corresponding wave pattern that “grooves” and pulsates to music and noise. You can also choose from five pre-set pulsations or use “tease” mode, which lets you or a partner manually control the sensations with the included wireless remote. The mushroom-shaped head is designed to stimulate the prostate. A single charge gets you up to an hour of play.
14. Unbound Puff
Unbound’s best-selling Puff suction toy simulates oral sex and has five different intensity settings for as deep of a sensation as you need. With over 2,300 5-star reviews, you know it can deliver, and the fact that it’s waterproof, rechargeable and quiet means you can take a little pleasure with you on the go. Super compact and super sleek, the bright-colored designs are available in either a coral or a minty sea green.
15. Satisfyer Men Vibration+ Masturbator
Satisfyer
Guys: Get a better grip the next time you self-stimulate with the Satisfyer Men Vibration+ masturbator cup. The device may look intense but it’s pretty straightforward to use. The Satisfyer slides easily over your shaft, with a silky-soft “cyberskin” sleeve mimicking the real thing. Use the grippy sides to control the pressure, from soft to strong.
Winner of a 2021 CES design award, the Satisfyer has 14 preset, mind-blowing vibration programs, letting you work your way around the different contours and sensations inside the sleeve. As well as intense vibrations, which can also be controlled via app, the Satisfyer Men Vibration+ fits comfortably in your hand.
16. Dame Products Arc G-Spot Vibrator
Dame Products
Want something with a little more reach? The long, curved handle of this “Arc” vibrator from Dame Products helps you hit those hard-to-reach spots to relieve tension and stimulate. It’s made from a medical-grade silicone that’s safe for “internal” and external use, with five different patterns and intensities (think everything from a rocking motion to diving in and out).
But it’s the user-friendly design that really helps this vibrator stick out (no pun intended). The curved handle is easy to maneuver, while the “beaked tip” is surprisingly realistic.
17. Arcwave Ion
Ella Paradis
The classic fleshlight gets a modern upgrade with this motorized masturbation sleeve. To use: Apply lube to the inside of the device, turn it on, and slide inside. The Arcwave uses changing patterns of air pressure to target your pleasure receptors, resulting in a surprisingly realistic (but mess-free) experience.
Choose from eight intensity levels, and use your hand to guide the device, or let it work its magic on its own. And while the Arcwave is motorized (a charging cable is included), it’s not so loud that you’ll wake up your partner, or alert your roommates to what you’re doing in your room.
18. plusOne Personal Wipes
Amazon
You can certainly wash your devices with a little soap and water, but to really keep your sex toys squeaky clean, we recommend these plusOne Personal Wipes. The sanitizing cleansing wipes are made from an all-natural, alcohol-free formula and ensure a more thorough cleaning than soap and water alone.
The wipes are hypoallergenic too and safe for use on even sensitive areas of the body. What we like: Each box contains 12 individually-wrapped wipes, so you can keep a few in your wallet or bag and stay clean whether you’re playing at home or taking your fun to go.
If you purchase an independently reviewed product or service through a link on our website, Rolling Stone may receive an affiliate commission.
Retailers across the country say sales of sex toys spiked over the last three years, as people looked to self-pleasure as a new form of self-care — and the trend shows no sign of slowing down.
For Chris Cicchinelli, CEO and President of Pure Romance (a direct seller of “relationship enhancement” and intimacy products), sales of the brand’s sex toys are up 88 percent since March 2020, with even the “bondage” category seeing a small uptick in sales. “Statistically, it is not uncommon for couples to turn to sex for comfort and advancing their relationships,” he says. “Who says there’s no sunshine after the rain?”
Now, even as everything from speed-dating to bar pick-ups and the throughs of cuffing season have come back full-swing, solo sex toy sales continue to grow. In other words, people are keeping their personal sex toys and continuing to buy more.
What Are the Top Sex Toys to Buy Online?
Whether you’re just starting out with sex toys or skilled at the art of stimulation, we’ve rounded up some of the most top-rated, popular devices and accessories that people are buying right now. Along with Cicchinelli’s recommendations, we looked for toys with majority positive reviews, or a cult following who rave about their success.
1. OhMiBod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibe
Ella Pardis
Sex toys should be comfortable and easy to use, which is why we love this Finger Vibe from OhMiBod. The ergonomic clitoral vibrator sits comfortably in your palm with a two-finger loop for security. This lets you rub almost as you would without a toy, only it feels way better with five vibration modes. Made of a plush, 100 percent waterproof material, the Finger Vibe is easy to clean, great for the shower and soft to the touch.
2. Velvet Thruster Prime
The Thruster
We all have different tastes when it comes to sex. The award-winning Velvet Thruster Prime dildo aims to accommodate this erotic variety by offering customizability: You get to choose between five heads of differing shapes and sizes, as well as the thruster’s color and accessories. After choosing your design, sit back and enjoy smooth, machine-powered thrusting action.
3. Womanizer Duo 2
Womanizer
The Womanizer Duo 2 has enjoyed much acclaim, and it deserves the attention. As the name suggests, the Duo 2 is really two toys in one with a clitoris stimulator and an attached vibrator. Ergonomically shaped to tackle your clitoris and G-spot simultaneously, the toy promises serious satisfaction. But don’t be intimidated: both parts of the toy can be adjusted to match your mood with 14 levels of intensity on the clitoris stimulator and 10 modes on the vibrator.
4. Better Love Rabbit Lily
Amazon
This unisex vibrator features 10 different speeds and dual motors. Turn it up for a more intense experience, or keep the vibrations slow and smooth, depending on your mood. Either way, it stays superquiet. The Rabbit Lily is 100 percent waterproof and features a soft silicone tip that can be inserted up to four inches deep.
5. We-Vibe Chorus
We Vibe
Designed for couples (but can absolutely be used solo), this vibrator offers dual stimulation with more than 10 different modes. The vibrator is super soft and flexible, to adapt to the different curves and crevices in your body. The touch-sensitive remote reacts to human touch. The harder you squeeze, the more intense the vibrations.
6. TENGA Easy Beat Eggs
Amazon
Designed by the Japanese firm TENGA, these eggs are all uniquely textured inside for a more heightened masturbatory experience. “Crack” the egg open and slide it over your shaft to enjoy a surprisingly arousing sensation. This six-pack contains six different suction styles, from “wavy” to “tornado.”
7. Emojibator Pickle Personal Massager
Amazon
This “Emojibator” is a fun and accessible way to get into sex toys, without any intimidation. This unisex massager is 100 percent waterproof and lets you choose from 10 different vibration speeds and settings, from gentle to intense. It runs on a single AAA battery (included).
8. LELO SONA 2 Cruise
LELO
A uniquely shaped device designed for clitoral stimulation, the SONA 2 Cruise offers gentle waves that ripple along the body both inside and out. A wider surface area and large mouth provides plenty of options for play, while the silicone absorbs the sonic waves and transmits them back to your clitoris, for a deeper yet gentle sensation. The harder you press it against your body, the more powerful the stimulation.
9. PHANXY Rose Tongue Licking Vibrator
Amazon
PHANXY has one of the hottest clitoral stimulators you can find on Amazon this season. Compact, stylish, and oh-so-smooth, PHANXY’s soft silicone tongue flicks with nine different speeds. One short press of the button also lets it lightly reverberate vibes all around. Its compact size makes it great for packing up for trips, or keeping beside your bed. This rose-shaped vibrator is also waterproof and USB rechargeable — so you can shower a little longer.
10. LELO TOR 2
LELO
This vibrating ring is worn by men but enhances pleasure for both partners. With six different settings and a snug (but not too tight) fit, the vibrator gently titillates while helping to control his orgasm, for longer sessions in bed. Take it out of the bedroom too — the Tor 2 is 100 percent waterproof, making it a great toy for the shower or tub.
11. SKYN Thrill Massager
Amazon
This rose-gold massager is great for solo play or use with a partner. The Thrill features three speeds, is water-resistant, and USB-rechargeable. A single charge lasts up to one hour. This mini vibrator is from the condom brand SKYN — a company that knows a thing or two about pleasure.
12. TENGA Flex White
Amazon
One of the most popular products in TENGA’s lineup, the Flex White is a sleek, streamlined masturbation cup, designed to add new sensations with every stroke. It’s lined with a soft and flexible rubbery material that loosens and tightens like a spiral every time you move the device up and down your shaft. The rippled outer layer ensures a comfortable grip.
13. Club Vibe 3.OH Hero
OhMiBod
From the popular sex-tech brand, OhMiBod, this “Club Vibe 3.OH” vibrator reacts to ambient sounds and sends a corresponding wave pattern that “grooves” and pulsates to music and noise. You can also choose from five pre-set pulsations or use “tease” mode, which lets you or a partner manually control the sensations with the included wireless remote. The mushroom-shaped head is designed to stimulate the prostate. A single charge gets you up to an hour of play.
14. Unbound Puff
Unbound’s best-selling Puff suction toy simulates oral sex and has five different intensity settings for as deep of a sensation as you need. With over 2,300 5-star reviews, you know it can deliver, and the fact that it’s waterproof, rechargeable and quiet means you can take a little pleasure with you on the go. Super compact and super sleek, the bright-colored designs are available in either a coral or a minty sea green.
15. Satisfyer Men Vibration+ Masturbator
Satisfyer
Guys: Get a better grip the next time you self-stimulate with the Satisfyer Men Vibration+ masturbator cup. The device may look intense but it’s pretty straightforward to use. The Satisfyer slides easily over your shaft, with a silky-soft “cyberskin” sleeve mimicking the real thing. Use the grippy sides to control the pressure, from soft to strong.
Winner of a 2021 CES design award, the Satisfyer has 14 preset, mind-blowing vibration programs, letting you work your way around the different contours and sensations inside the sleeve. As well as intense vibrations, which can also be controlled via app, the Satisfyer Men Vibration+ fits comfortably in your hand.
16. Dame Products Arc G-Spot Vibrator
Dame Products
Want something with a little more reach? The long, curved handle of this “Arc” vibrator from Dame Products helps you hit those hard-to-reach spots to relieve tension and stimulate. It’s made from a medical-grade silicone that’s safe for “internal” and external use, with five different patterns and intensities (think everything from a rocking motion to diving in and out).
But it’s the user-friendly design that really helps this vibrator stick out (no pun intended). The curved handle is easy to maneuver, while the “beaked tip” is surprisingly realistic.
17. Arcwave Ion
Ella Paradis
The classic fleshlight gets a modern upgrade with this motorized masturbation sleeve. To use: Apply lube to the inside of the device, turn it on, and slide inside. The Arcwave uses changing patterns of air pressure to target your pleasure receptors, resulting in a surprisingly realistic (but mess-free) experience.
Choose from eight intensity levels, and use your hand to guide the device, or let it work its magic on its own. And while the Arcwave is motorized (a charging cable is included), it’s not so loud that you’ll wake up your partner, or alert your roommates to what you’re doing in your room.
18. plusOne Personal Wipes
Amazon
You can certainly wash your devices with a little soap and water, but to really keep your sex toys squeaky clean, we recommend these plusOne Personal Wipes. The sanitizing cleansing wipes are made from an all-natural, alcohol-free formula and ensure a more thorough cleaning than soap and water alone.
The wipes are hypoallergenic too and safe for use on even sensitive areas of the body. What we like: Each box contains 12 individually-wrapped wipes, so you can keep a few in your wallet or bag and stay clean whether you’re playing at home or taking your fun to go.
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